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Hello Ladies,

I am not an object you can bend, mold, and shape into your fantasy of control. I will not be reduced to fit into a tiny little box that’s convenient just for you. A woman who loves me will treat my boundaries as something that’s sacred. A woman who wants to own me will treat my boundaries as something that’s optional. Lately, I have been dating people that say they want love, but what they really want is the emotional control, and dominance over a man. Good luck.

The truth is, you only “love” me, “want” me, or give me “attention” when I am accessible, compliant, and easy to regulate. So the only way I can stay in your life is to sacrifice pieces of my own integrity. I don’t believe that is love… I feel like that is just a form of emotional manipulation. I also feel like that is selfish, childish, and bears no weight in anyone else’s reality but your own constructed illusion. Let’s face it, what do you really have to offer?

I enjoy when they use silence as a weapon. In fact, I find it funny. That’s a woman’s way of silently conditioning a man to conform to their own twisted reality, while encouraging you to ignore your own. They want a man to panic, have an emotional meltdown, and return with apologies. They want a man to over give, over explain, and over chase them. While it might be nice to send them flowers, it’s probably better to walk in the other direction. After all, women can barely meet a mans basic needs now a days.

Last but not least. When they realize you are not falling for their tests, tactics, or delusions. A woman who can’t take responsibility for their behaviors, actions, or decisions. They will paint you as the villain in their story. When all you truly did, was give them 100 percent, and got back 30. So… No, you don’t love me, you just love the emotional storm I created within you. What I tolerate today, becomes the prison I am stuck in (with you) tomorrow. I am saying a firm… NO. A woman who can’t tolerate my no…. Does NOT deserve my “Yes”.