I am single

I never imagined I'd be single when turning 40, but here I am. My birthday is on the 17th, and that’s when I’ll hit the big 4-0. Looking back, my friendships, relationships, and experiences have taught me so many valuable lessons. One thing I know for sure—I'm in my prime.

I understand my purpose, my value, and my worth. I refuse to settle for one-sided relationships, games, or chasing after people. Love will find me, and I'll always be able to tell whether it’s genuine, fake, or just another lesson. Moving forward, I’m confident everything will fall into place, and the best part is, it will come to me.

Note to self: I am whole. God has blessed me with so much, and I’ve realized I am light, I am love, and I am filled with gratitude for every single day. The world is full of toxic people who don’t deserve my time, energy, or attention. The internet is packed with fake apps, fake profiles, and fake love designed to keep us hooked, but I’ve spent enough time exploring to see most of it is a scam.

Anyone or anything that disrupts my inner peace is a red flag, and I’ll steer clear of them like the plague. If I reach out and you ghost me, say you’re busy, or claim I’m too nice—don’t expect me to fall for the same traps others do. I’m different. I see through it all, and I’m too old to waste time on people who can’t recognize the love and light within me.

With that being said… I have been sober for over 10 years, I am healthy, and I am ready to spend the rest of my life with whoever God sends my way. Until then, I am just fine the way things are.